I lived in the Big Green House from the time I was born until I was about seven or eight years old, although my family had been connected to it long before that.
The house originally belonged to my grandparents. Eventually, they decided they wanted something smaller, preferably a house with only one floor, and the Big Green House was passed on to my parents.
I hated that house.
There were plenty of ordinary reasons to hate it. It was an old, large green house sitting just off a fairly busy road, and years of wear had started to catch up with it. There always seemed to be something wrong somewhere.
The roof wasn't in the best condition. Parts of the flooring were rough. At one point, there was a hole in the bathroom floor about the size of a bowling ball. A small plumbing leak apparently went unnoticed for so long that the damage eventually became impossible to ignore. The bathroom floor deteriorated, along with the kitchen ceiling directly beneath it, until part of it finally caved in.
It was the kind of old house where creaks, knocks, and strange sounds shouldn't have been surprising.
But those weren't the sounds that bothered us.
The Strange Things We Couldn't Explain
The physical condition of the house was frustrating, but it wasn't the real reason my family came to hate living there.
It was everything else.
There were noises throughout the house that none of us could explain. And although an old house with bad plumbing can make plenty of strange sounds, some of what we heard seemed different. These didn't sound like pipes knocking inside the walls or floorboards settling.
Sometimes it sounded like someone was actually moving around inside the house.
It was rare for everyone in my family to be gone at the same time, but one day we all happened to be out. My father decided to use the opportunity to try something.
He left an old tape recorder running inside the empty house.
The idea was simple: if the strange sounds were really happening when nobody was around, maybe the recorder would pick something up.
When we listened to the tape afterward, it didn't sound like an empty house.
Throughout the recording were sounds that seemed like things being moved or shuffled around. At one point, we could hear what sounded like drinking glasses clinking together in the kitchen.
Listening to it gave the impression that someone had entered the house after we left and simply spent the next hour and a half walking around as if they lived there.
But the strangest sound on the recording was the footsteps.
They were distinct, loud steps that reminded us of someone walking in high heels.
And they didn't remain in one part of the house.
The footsteps seemed to move freely from one area to another.
Whatever caused those sounds, none of us had an explanation for them.
The Reflection in the Television
There were visual experiences too.
Everyone occasionally catches movement out of the corner of their eye. You turn around, nothing is there, and you assume your eyes were playing tricks on you.
That is easy enough to dismiss.
It's harder to dismiss the feeling that someone is standing behind you, looking up, and seeing what appears to be a person's reflection in the dark screen of a television.
The television was turned off.
The reflection appeared to show someone standing behind me.
Watching me.
Experiences like that were part of what made living in the house so uncomfortable. Maybe there was an ordinary explanation for some of them. Maybe there wasn't.
At the time, all I knew was that the house scared me.
The Hand Through the Bathroom Door
One of the strangest stories from the Big Green House happened when I was only about three years old.
I don't personally remember it. I was far too young.
The story comes from my oldest sister, who was watching my younger brother and me that night.
My parents were visiting friends who lived just down the road, leaving the three of us alone in the house.
At some point, my sister decided to give my brother and me a quick bath before putting us to bed. She put us in the bathtub and began washing us.
Then she heard footsteps in the hallway outside the bathroom.
A short time later, the bathroom doorknob began to jiggle.
It sounded as if someone on the other side was trying to open the door.
My sister assumed our parents had come home.
"One minute," she called out. "I'll unlock it."
Then she turned toward the door.
That was when she saw a hand come through it.
According to her, the hand appeared through the door around the same height as the doorknob.
She panicked.
She quickly pulled my brother and me from the bathtub, dried us off, and got us dressed as fast as she could.
Then she opened the bathroom door and started checking the house.
No one was there.
Our parents hadn't returned.
As far as she could tell, the three of us were still alone.
Because I was only three, I can't claim any memory of seeing the hand myself. I only know the story as my sister later told it.
But it became another part of the history our family had with that house.
The Dreams
Some of the experiences followed us into our sleep.
I had recurring nightmares while living in the Big Green House.
For years, I thought they were simply my dreams.
It wasn't until much later in life that I discovered my father had experienced recurring dreams connected to the house as well.
My sisters also had dreams involving the house. Their dreams weren't exactly the same as mine, but they shared enough similarities in tone and subject to make the connection difficult to ignore.
The house seemed capable of making people uncomfortable even when they were asleep.
And it wasn't only the immediate members of my family.
Everyone Who Stayed There Had a Story
Other relatives stayed with us at different points, and some of them had strange experiences of their own.
My cousin, who was in his early twenties at the time, stayed in the basement for a while.
He began having recurring nightmares while he lived there.
Another relative, my uncle, stayed with us for a short time after being discharged from the Army following Desert Storm.
He experienced strange things too.
He would sometimes wake during the night and see unusual lights moving around the house.
He also heard many of the unexplained noises the rest of us had become familiar with.
Over time, it seemed as though almost everyone who spent enough time in the Big Green House eventually came away with some kind of story.
Maybe every experience had an explanation.
We just never found one.
After We Left
Eventually, we moved away from the Big Green House.
You would think that would have been the end of it.
For the most part, it was.
My family didn't spend years obsessing over the house. If anything, it was something we were perfectly happy to leave behind. Life moved on, years passed, and the house became part of our family's past.
Then something strange happened.
Years after we had moved out—and after the house had largely faded from our everyday lives—several members of my family began dreaming about it again.
The timing was what made it so strange.
My brother was dreaming about the house.
Both of my sisters were dreaming about it.
My father was dreaming about it.
My mother was dreaming about it.
And I was dreaming about it.
The dreams were vivid enough that we started talking about the house again.
It almost felt as though something had dragged a memory that all of us had intentionally left buried back to the surface at the same time.
The feeling was strange enough that my oldest sister decided she wanted to see the house again.
She contacted a Realtor to find out whether there was any possibility of walking through it.
That was when we learned something none of us had known.
The Big Green House had recently been condemned.
It was marked for demolition.
Because of its condition, going inside wasn't an option.
Was It Just a Coincidence?
I don't know what happened in that house.
I can't tell you that it was haunted. I can't prove that any of the experiences my family had were paranormal.
Some of them may have had perfectly ordinary explanations that we simply never discovered.
Old houses make noises.
People have nightmares.
Reflections can play tricks on you.
Memories, especially childhood memories, aren't always perfect.
But some things remain harder for me to explain.
The sounds recorded inside an empty house.
The footsteps that seemed to move through the rooms.
The reflection in the television.
My sister's story about the bathroom door.
The experiences of relatives who stayed with us.
And years later, after we had barely thought about the place for a long time, so many members of my family suddenly dreaming about the Big Green House again—right around the time it was being condemned and prepared for demolition.
Was that nothing more than coincidence?
Maybe.
Or maybe, after all those years, the Big Green House had one last way of making sure we remembered it.
Either way, we did.
And I don't think any of us will ever completely forget it.


